You don’t need another person telling you to “document everything” or “let’s file another motion”. You need long term strategy and support.
You need someone who understands the war you’re actually in.
I work with mothers navigating high-conflict custody battles, coercive control, and family court manipulation. While attorneys handle legal filings, I help you handle the strategy, the psychology, and the emotional warfare that isn’t written in law books.
Attorneys argue the law and operate linear. I help you anticipate the narcissist and navigate the rollercoaster of post separation abuse. Attorneys file motions. I help you build positioning. Attorneys react to what’s presented. I help you prepare for the predictable tactics of your coercive controller.
I help you stay regulated, strategic, and three steps ahead — so you stop feeling blindsided in a system that wasn’t built to see coercive control clearly.
This isn’t a temporary bandaid, we create a long term strategy- Something your ex’s attorney will NOT be doing.
How can I help?
Detailed Strategy
The reality is, you cannot work with emotions and think this will be a simple solution- regardless as to which step in the process you are in. You need strategy. I offer one on one phone sessions for all clients within the US.
Predicting common tactics
I teach clients how to recognize behavioral patterns and anticipate the common tactics a coercively controlling person may use in court, mediation, or co-parenting. This helps them prepare strategic responses, avoid being caught off guard, and stay focused on protecting themselves and their children.
Preparation for Evaluations
I help clients prepare for custody and psychological evaluations by organizing their concerns, identifying the most relevant patterns, and communicating their experiences clearly and effectively. They enter the process informed, prepared, and equipped to remain focused on their children’s safety and well-being.
Documentation systems
I teach clients how to build simple, sustainable documentation systems they can continue using long after our work together ends. These systems keep critical information organized, easily accessible, and ready to share with their attorneys when needed.
Mediation Prep
I prepare clients for mediation by helping them clarify their priorities, anticipate pressure tactics, and develop strategic responses before entering the room. They walk in organized, confident, and equipped to advocate for agreements that protect both themselves and their children.
Leverage your case
I teach survivors how to leverage the patterns and evidence of coercive control in court—turning what they’ve experienced into a clear, strategic, and compelling case. They learn how to connect the facts, present documentation effectively, and communicate in a way the court can understand.
What people are saying
“I'm SO grateful I was referred to Tori early on in my custody battle. Her weekly calls provided the strategy and organization I needed to manage my complex case across two states and kept me from getting sucked into my ex's chaos. I went from feeling so lost and constantly on the defense to empowered and on the offense. My attorney was so impressed with the binder Tori helped me create, and her paralegal expertise saved me money and improved our case. Relying solely on my very busy attorney, who is excellent, would have been a HUGE mistake. Tori was the missing piece and empowered me to take control, leading to a favorable evaluation and recommendation. I continue to use Tori for ongoing support even though my case has closed (for now) and HIGHLY recommend her services wherever you're at in your journey” -Anonymous
“I have a therapist and a lawyer, but Tori is something special. The mutual experience is invaluable.”
— Anonymous
“Having Tori in my corner is like having someone arm you for battle with all the right “weapons” to fight for you and your kids.”
— Anonymous
“This feels a little early to be posting a testimonial, but I had a single intro session with Tori, and within 4 hours of the appointment I had figured out things that changed the entire course of a deposition... which my attorney and I had been researching in preparation for since December 2022.
— Anonymous
“Tori is literally saving my life. Without her guidance I would not have been as confident or strong in navigating police, court, lawyers, you name it.”
— Anonymous
“Tori has such an intense personal experience and is truly invested in my case. I don’t know what I would do without her, you don’t know it yet, but you need her too! I wish I could shout this from the rooftops!”
— Anonymous
“I’ve met with Tori about 4 times now, 3 one on one and 1 group session, I have been following her for awhile. I am so thankful for this group of people and for Tori’s help during a hard time in me and my kids life. Having the connections and relationships with everyone I’ve met in this process has been one of the best experiences, I’ve been able to vent about my frustrations… But I’ve also been able to understand better how to navigate the system and how to format a court document on my own!”
— Anonymous
