When coercive control follows you into family court, you deserve support that understands the bigger picture.
I work with mothers navigating high-conflict custody battles, coercive control, and family court manipulation.
I help you navigate the rollercoaster of post separation abuse by helping you stay regulated, helping you prepare for the predictable tactics of your coercive controller and helping you stay strategic.
This isn’t a temporary bandaid, we create a long term strategy.
Coercive Control expert and Family Court Strategist
Tori Benitez
Certified in Coercive Control Paralegal education
Victim-Survivor of Coercive Control Certified in High Conflict divorce and custody
A next step that meets you here.
Detailed Strategy
The reality is, you cannot work with emotions and think this will be a simple solution- regardless as to which step in the process you are in. You need strategy. I offer one on one phone sessions for all clients within the US.
Predicting common tactics
I teach clients how to recognize behavioral patterns and anticipate the common tactics a coercively controlling person may use in court, mediation, or co-parenting. This helps them prepare strategic responses, avoid being caught off guard, and stay focused on protecting themselves and their children.
Preparation for Evaluations
I help clients prepare for custody and psychological evaluations by organizing their concerns, identifying the most relevant patterns, and communicating their experiences clearly and effectively. They enter the process informed, prepared, and equipped to remain focused on their children’s safety and well-being.
Documentation systems
I teach clients how to build simple, sustainable documentation systems they can continue using long after our work together ends. These systems keep critical information organized, easily accessible, and ready to share with their attorneys when needed.
Mediation Prep
I prepare clients for mediation by helping them clarify their priorities, anticipate pressure tactics, and develop strategic responses before entering the room. They walk in organized, confident, and equipped to advocate for agreements that protect both themselves and their children.
Leverage your case
I teach survivors how to leverage the patterns and evidence of coercive control in court—turning what they’ve experienced into a clear, strategic, and compelling case. They learn how to connect the facts, present documentation effectively, and communicate in a way the court can understand.