Prepping your escape is KEY!

Prepping to Escape Domestic Violence

Onyx Arrow Consulting

Escaping domestic violence is a challenging and life-altering decision. It requires careful planning, commitment, and support. At Onyx Arrow Consulting, we understand the urgency and importance of prepping for such a transition. Here are some steps to consider when preparing to escape domestic violence:
1. Safety First: Before taking any actions, prioritize your safety and the safety of any children involved. Assess the level of danger you face in your current situation and determine whether immediate action is needed. Identify safe spaces in your community, such as a shelter or the home of a trusted friend or family member, where you can seek refuge if necessary.

2. Create a Personal Exit Plan: Develop a detailed and personalized exit plan that takes into account your specific circumstances. Consider factors such as financial resources, access to important documents (birth certificates, identification, financial records), and logistics of leaving the premises safely. Outlining a plan will help minimize potential risks and boost your confidence as you move forward.

3. Secure Important Documents: Make copies of essential documents and store them in a safe location outside the home, such as at a trusted friend's house or in a safety deposit box. Ensure copies of documents like identification cards, passports, lease agreements, insurance papers, and any legal documents related to the relationship are readily available when needed.

4. Financial Preparations: Financial independence is often a critical aspect of leaving an abusive relationship. Save money discreetly, utilizing cashback options or money-saving apps, to have financial resources readily available for your transition.
5. Develop a Support Network: Cultivate a network of trusted individuals who can offer emotional support and lend a helping hand during your transition. This may include friends, family, support groups, or fellow survivors. Sharing your situation with someone you trust can provide strength and comfort during difficult times.

At Onyx Arrow Consulting, we are committed to supporting and empowering individuals seeking to break free from domestic violence. If you require further guidance or assistance, please reach out to Tori, a Certified High Conflict Divorce and Custody Consultant, and Family Court Strategist for a one-on-one strategy call. You are not alone, and together, we can help you begin a new chapter in your life.