Do coercive controllers target single mothers?
Do coercive controllers seem to target single mothers as their next victims of domestic violence? It seems as though abusers have a playbook even down to picking their “perfect” victim.
What is a nesting agreement?
There's various parenting plans out there, including a nesting agreement. I have my own thoughts on this, especially when you are escaping a DV relationship. Read more on this.
Is it Postpartum Depression or your abuser?
What if your postpartum depression was actually the abusers doing, not you being clinically depressed because of (solely) childbirth? Let’s dive into this together to see if it was really postpartum depression.
Childhood trauma and ACE’s Scores.
Childhood trauma, domestic violence and increase ACES scores. What are the connections and why are they often ignored?
Types of Financial abuse, and common signs you might be missing.
Financial abuse and common signs you might be missing. These may be obvious signs, or signs you might think are “normal” due to society.
10 places to stash your cash
Majority of abusive relationships also involve financial abuse, which make it hard for victims to escape. As someone who has been through it, and had to find places to stash cash, here are 10 places that I would stash my own cash that I utilized in my escape.
7 common plays in the coercive controllers playbook
Coercive Controllers seem to have a common (secret) playbook. Read more on 7 common tactics they utilize.
The flame that brings you warmth, burns you.
The flame that feels like warmth burns you down.