Do coercive controllers target single mothers?
Tori Benitez Tori Benitez

Do coercive controllers target single mothers?

Do coercive controllers seem to target single mothers as their next victims of domestic violence? It seems as though abusers have a playbook even down to picking their “perfect” victim.

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What is a nesting agreement?
Tori Benitez Tori Benitez

What is a nesting agreement?

There's various parenting plans out there, including a nesting agreement. I have my own thoughts on this, especially when you are escaping a DV relationship. Read more on this.

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 Is it Postpartum Depression or your abuser?
Tori Benitez Tori Benitez

Is it Postpartum Depression or your abuser?

What if your postpartum depression was actually the abusers doing, not you being clinically depressed because of (solely) childbirth? Let’s dive into this together to see if it was really postpartum depression.

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10 places to stash your cash
Tori Benitez Tori Benitez

10 places to stash your cash

Majority of abusive relationships also involve financial abuse, which make it hard for victims to escape. As someone who has been through it, and had to find places to stash cash, here are 10 places that I would stash my own cash that I utilized in my escape.

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